Would you like to enchant your partner with a special, unforgettable pampering, but you don’t know how to get started? What are the essential components when it comes to a good sensual massage? By following our sensual massage tips, you can give your sweetheart the satisfying experience that they deserve after a long day.
The history of sensual massage
The beginnings of sensual massage can be dated to the 1960s. It originated in California, where hippie movements of the time played an important role in its formation. The extremely popular massage form in the cultural trends of the era was promoted by Molly Day and Bernard Gunther at the Esalen Institute. At the beginning, it was only practiced in a narrow circle, but later spread to all parts of the world.
Positive effects
The positive effects of sensual massage have been widely reported. For this type of massage, harmony between the two person is essential. For the most complete experience, intense attunement and trust is required from both the masseuse and the receiver. As a result, sensual massage wonderfully builds relationships, deepens intimacy, and helps build and strengthen trust between the two parties.
It also has beneficial health effects especially on the area of sexual problems. It alleviates and over time even completely dissolves sexual barriers, blocks from the past. It can be a quick and effective solution to both ejaculation problems and in case of erectile complaints.
Preparations
Sensual massage begins long before the massage. It’s important to pay attention to the details in creating the mood, helping for a truly sensual attunement.
- When choosing music, it should fit the occasion, let it be slow and cozy. Our goal with it is to create an atmosphere of calm and relaxation, speaking softly from the background.
- The room where the massage takes place should should be pleasant room temperature so that the reciever can pay all their attention on you, and not on freezing.
- Avoid strong lights, the main focus is on the creative world of mood lighting. Semi-darkness, mysterious shadows, candlesticks, candles, and some not very strong colored lights on choice all help to tune in. The room and its surroundings should be pleasantly intimate and calm, you can provide delicious scents with scented candles and incense.
- When choosing a massage oil, strive for quality. We have already devoted a post to this topic previously, but the point is to choose a carrier that suits your purpose in terms of texture, composition and scent.
- When the environment is ready, prepare yourself too. A sensual outfit, your favorite lace underwear, a new lingerie set, some swinging and lush outfit will surely dazzle your partner.
It’s recommended to take a shower first, than you can lay him clean in the place designated for the massage.
Once your partner is in place, change into a sensual set in another room. It is not enough to put on, you also have to wear the clothes. Be confident, sensual. Behave decisively, transcend into the role of the masseuse, gently take control of the receiver.
During the massage, you necessarily need to pay maximum attention to your partner, to attune to them, so that your sweetheart can receive the most dazzling massage experience ever.
The massage
By creating the atmosphere, your partner is sufficiently relaxed, maximally calm and tuned to the experience that awaits him. You can find an example below on the practical part of sensual massage. I explain how these parts of the massage techniques add up to the perfect experience:
- effleurage (sliding or gliding)
- rubbing
- kneading
- shiatsu technique
- vibration
During effleurage, apply the oil nicely on the body of the receiver with long, delicate, caressing movements. During the rubbing phase, you warm up the muscles, gently leading him to a deeper massage waiting for him. You can release the stuck muscles during kneading. Shiatsu is an acupressure massage technique from Japan.
Move your fingers along the meridian lines of the body with definite pressure. With this technique, you can also eliminate long-lasting muscle and joint pain. The vibration provides a framework for the massage, with its help, the body pleasantly refreshes.
In the following, I introduce the sensual massage types also available in our salon, so that you can feel like having an exceptional team of a professional environment help you relax even being at home. Of course, if you wish to engage in a really fantastic professional experience, I recommend you trying one of the wonderful programs that our masseuses offer at least once.
Yoni massage
You can experience yoni massage alone, with a partner or with the help of a professional masseur. It helps to overcome emotional imbalances, sexual kind of blocks, and it is also a remedy when feeling a stagnation in our creativity. As negative experiences are being stored throughout our bodies, there can also be some blocks in our yoni. This form of massage helps to dissolve these barriers.
First, start the massage with soft gliding touches and smoothings. Watch the reactions of the receiver, tune in to their body. After some time, the finer strokes are to be replaced by stronger ones. With circling, you can draw circles on the body.
This helps in releasing tension, previously stuck blocks. Pressing and pulling are more intense ways to pamper the body. Consistency and proper communication are also key during the rolling and rubbing phases. Tapping and vibrating can have different intensities and speeds.
It is important to be aware that there is no goal or deadline. Try and stay in the moment. It takes time, experimentation, attunement, intimacy to perform an in-home yoni massage, we hope we were able to help with some useful information.
Lingam massage
Like a yoni massage, it can be experienced, with or without our loved one, and also with the help of a qualified masseuse. Pleasantly caressing, soft strokes tune us in to enjoy the massage experience. They draw our attention to the present moment, closing out the reality of stressful everyday life. Consistency between the massage giver and the recipient is essential during lingam massage.
From the reactions, the masseuse senses what is pleasant or just painful for the partner’s body and makes the movements accordingly. Over time, a more powerful but still fine series of strokes can follow the initial warm-up. If desired, the soft and stronger sections can alternate. Smoothing downward or upward, circling movements, synchronous or alternating hands. Play, experiment, with whatever is best for you!
Slippery massage
During the slippery massage, you can use your whole body to massage, instead of only hands. Use your thighs, torso, butt, chest and the areas around your stomach. With your slippery oiled body, slide your partner’s body all the way, the sensual effect will not be missed! The carrier plays a particularly important role in this technique. The proper glide makes the experience exceptional.
Nuru massage
Nuru massage is also a type of slippery massage, but performed with a special nuru gel instead of traditional oil. This material is a water-based, preheated, fragrance-free gel that gives a more slippery feeling, thus providing a more special experience. It is completely the same technique as a mentioned before slippery massage with oil, they only differ in the material used.
